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 Motivation and Advicing Theory

I am feeling really glad that i am begining to write a book in the field where I don't have any academic qualifications. But the fact is stil more amazing that I have read a very big pile of books in the same subject. I even more surprising that I have been motivating my freinds from elders teachers to even people whom I just saw in bus never talked but he got motivated from my doings. Yes after reading many books and pappers I have found that there is nothing like motivation. In computer language there is only programming and even getting vsaast there is only  0 or one ie the machine level language. Beside programming through lectures there is something like using somethimg else than the lectures that is showing something like pictures movies (last I saw and got programmed is slumdog milionaire) doimg somethimg like reading in a bus.
        how I knew this is very intresting (Who ever living in kathmandu can amzine the jams that people face every day. I am one who faces the jams. When I pass throught the jams I used ti sit idle listening to musics or listten to walk peole do. Here you must hase noted onething that if your time to leave and return home are sheduled than you can see that most of the people that you see are same everyday. Oneday I beagen reading whatever the books I had. This subsequently mad epeople tio read some magazines and pappers day by day. This taught me that every person realises the good and bad but to start the good he relly needs some good and forcing reason. But if he gets to folloe then he easily does that. I use the same thinmg in my motivation techniqies
        And making my book short enought I must tell about one of my friens who is always motivated by what I say.  Not only saying he does and decides as I do. There fore I get many chamces to do experiments. And there is one event that i must note here.
        Today I saw that there was a conflict between him and his girl friend.  but as i used my techiques. I was relly impressed that it worked. Whenever ther is conflict and there is attitude to revenge. i just tell them to count. To count there is a rule. If very little angry then count 1 to 10
If a bit more angry then count 1 to 100. And if the anger hsa decision even to  killing then count 1 to 1000.
        This obviously was proved a good method to make the decision better and less aggresive. But the main face behind this is topology of  the levels of brain. From a source I found that the number related things and deciusion making are controlled by the same hemisphere so I think that this facilates the decision making process. This is the first thing i use as a psychological process in decision making.
        The very next thing that I do in my psychological treatement is telling lies. Yes, of course, telling lies. When I tell lies and i see the expression from it then i can really entrepreat in what the persion is willing to.
 

Beside these techniques I also try some self made techniques. Firstly I try  to realise the problem as mine. I try  to fell how the person m ight be feeling. Then I try to heal his  paion as mine. I always use the nearest language as possisble. If there is conflit between a girl and a boy then I  try  to make them reallise how the other person might be feeling due to that event. And i hav allways realise that dealing with the sentimental girls and guys is always easy than dealing with the tought and harsh guys and girls. Some are very frank to deal about the problems they have whereas some try to hide what they are feeling as much as they can. In such a time I have use the benefit of the relation I have with athem.This alwaz works as a solution. But i am doing this not for experiments but to sovle the preoblem they are facing.
                Andfor more knnoledge I learn the books that are written to motivate people. Actually I don get motivation to do something bettter form those books. Actually I Learn the techniques they use. The best writer  I have ever seen till this date are Shiv Khera. He has written many boooks \on motivation. I think "You can Win" is the best. Another Writer is from Malayasia . He is writer of "Daare to faail" I like this book because this book  has trised to make osmething out of notjing.






 
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